1. Talking gibberish about his friends
Oh this is a big one, just like when talking about his family you tread in the No-Shit-Zone, similarly when you are talking about his friends, keep it mind that it is the Seriously-no-shit-zone! So yes, if you say random bull about his friends, the only people whom he values above you perhaps (don’t get green it is always true, sadly) then do not expect your value to rise any higher. A five month old baby could do this particular math so you might as well learn too!
2. Unilateral refusals to do things
Word to the wise, if you keep on refusing little pleasures to your guy (like you know what, if you know what I mean that is), or watching the ball game with him sometimes, or doing some stuff with his family or his guys, lock it in your mind that eventually he would find someone to do all of this stuff with and then you really can’t blame him can you! So stop being such a stuck up and do a little compromising on your part too!
3. Waiting for the big disrespect
Surprisingly, I find so many women with the same cry of “How could he do this to me?” I have often observed, after critically analyzing all the events leading to this scenario, that your sorry-a** excuse of a person has actually given them so much slack in the past that when they pull a bigger stunt, one that really pisses you off, it is too late to pull back and then you go all “Oh how mean of him, how could he do this?” You really can’t see how they could do this girls, they do it with your very own permission of course, so take action and do not take the crap!
4. Blaming the other woman
Assuming that your guy did cheat you, let me tell you this one little fact. Do not make the dumbest mistake that women normally make of calling the other women up, using swear words at her, and calling her name. Because she does not know you and quite honestly, in the same capacity, she gives a shit to your whole tantrum. If, however, it is your friend or relative that your guy cheated you with, you have my blessing to give her an ear full!
5. Dr Jekyll and Mr Hyde
Nearly everyone knows that whenever you are in the beginning of a new relationship, everything is all honey and dew and everyone is very pleasant to one another. Both the sides put on their best possible behavior. It is when the relationship starts getting a little old that the real vibes show. Much as I would hate to admit, but it is generally the women that change more. And let me tell you all that if you keep switching between Miss Jekyll to Miss Hyde in a matter of hours, which basically means going from the all appreciative girlfriend to a psych biatch and back over, do not be surprised when he turns to Mr Absent instead of Mr Attentive! What more can you expect anyway!
6. Sending personal pictures
Most if the girls do not know that men, as a general rule, show the pictures of their girls to their friends (male friends and female friends). So unless you are totally at home with the entire social circle of your guy, do not send him any of your personal (if you know what I mean, which I am pretty sure you do) pictures. I would not even suggest getting yourself taped with him because with the tape, it is all good till its good, but when the relationship goes flat, you may find yourself the object of a lot of adult viewers desire (again, IF you know what I mean).
7. Saying you’re cool when you’re not
When you being the relationship, be very clear what you like, and what will make you freak out. Because ladies, it is so not cool to let him know that you have no issues with him seeing other woman, or holding another girls hands, or talking to another girl, or the fact that he has children but when it comes to actually witnessing some of the aforementioned action, you lose it all together and freak out! So whatever it is that you have reservations against, just bring them out in the open to save yourself the utter humiliation of a break down later!
8. Snooping the wrong way
This is common in most of the girls that when ever they spot the tiniest bit of lying or something seems fishy, they go out snooping. Looking into their guys stuff when ever he is not aware, checking through his phone messages to spot the cheat! Well kudos to that, no issues! The issue arises when they actually do spot philandery, confront the guy, and then expect an apology, Any self-respecting would turn the table back onto you in such a case because you suspected him to begin with, and then you went snooping around his stuff. So either make a cheetah like move and make him confess the mistake, or just do the snooping bit and not the confronting bit!
9. Clinging to the notion that ‘actions speak louder than words’.
So it happens in most of the relationships that men make it clear in the beginning that they are not looking for a relationship. Once they have that side cleared and their conscience all wiped clean, they go ahead and do all of those acts that might indicate them warming up to the idea of a relationship. Women, being the dumb little folk that they are, tend to ignore the initial red flag and assume that Oh! my man has changed! Well this is to bring to your notice that men never change. Until and unless a man says that he has changed his mind and is looking for a relationship, he certainly is not looking for one so please save yourselves the embarrassment!
10. Telling men that we dreamed about you
So ladies, here is the thing. This particular line is now so old and shabby and no one even believes it any more. So even if you did see your guy in one f your dreams (which you eventually will if you do not stop obsessing) than trust me you need not bore him with the details because he is certainly going to think that you are making it all up. Like they say that when you say in an interview that you want to do good for the company, it seems fake because it is a line that has been used a lot and therefore sounds cheesy. So if you want to talk to them, just go ahead and talk like they do! Women make such excuses and make themselves look like complete fools.
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